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Contents
Modern Marriage...
Front Cover
MODERN
MARRIAGE
AND HOW TO BEAR IT
BY
MAUD
CHURTON
BRABY AUTHOR
OF
“DOWNWARD”
MODERN
MARRIAGE
AND HOW TO
BEAR IT
NEW SHILLING REPRINTS
LOVE INTRIGUES OF ROYAL COURTS. By Thornton Hall.
FALLEN AMONG THIEVES. By Stanley Portal Hyatt.
THE UNCOUNTED COST. By Mary Gaunt.
SIX WOMEN. By Victoria Cross.
DOWNWARD. By Maud Churton Braby.
SCARLET KISS. By Gertie de S. Wentworth-James.
MISS FERRIBY’S CLIENTS. By Florence Warden.
RED LOVE. By Gertie de S. Wentworth-James.
MODERN MARRIAGE AND HOW TO BEAR IT. By Maud Churton Braby.
BIOGRAPHY FOR BEGINNERS. By G. K. Chesterton. With 48 Illustrations.
WHAT MEN LIKE IN WOMEN. By the Author of “How to be Happy though Married.”
THE SALVING OF A DERELICT. By Maurice Drake.
THE NIGHT-SIDE OF LONDON. By Robert Mackray. With 65 Pictures by Tom Browne.
LADY JIM OF CURZON STREET. By Fergus Hume.
2835 MAYFAIR. By Frank Richardson.
THE WILD WIDOW. By Gertie de S. Wentworth-James.
LETTERS TO A DAUGHTER. By Hubert Bland.
THE GAME OF BRIDGE. By “Cut
THE NIGHT-SIDE OF PARIS. By E. B. d’Auvergne. 20 Plates.
THE WEANING. By James Blyth.
THE METHODS OF MR AMES. By the Author of “John Johns.”
THE HAPPY MORALIST. By Hubert Bland.
THE KING AND ISABEL. By the Author of “John Johns.”
THE SINEWS OF WAR. By Eden Phillpotts and Arnold Bennett.
MODERN WOMAN AND HOW TO MANAGE HER. By Walter Gallichan.
PRESS NOTICES OF
MODERN MARRIAGE
And How to Bear it
PRESS NOTICES
W. T. Stead in the Review of Reviews.—“Mrs Maud Churton Braby has achieved a remarkable success. She has written an original book upon the most threadbare of all subjects, in which she has been as witty as she is wise . . . packed full of good sense, sound morality, and admirable advice. It is a book naked and unashamed, written by a woman of the world with the naïve simplicity of an innocent child, and arriving on the whole at conclusions worthy of any mother in Israel; a book full of profound wisdom irradiated by a pleasant wit and suffused with the glow of a genuine human sympathy.”
“Hubert” in the Sunday Chronicle.—“On the whole I congratulate Mrs Braby on her book . . . it is the only book on the subject of Modern Marriage that has not made me feel rather ill . . . frank, without the slightest indelicacy, and bold without the least impertinence . . . a real contribution towards the solution of an intolerably difficult problem.”
Daily Telegraph.—“Lively and frank . . . should prove instructive as well as readable and provide people with plenty to think about. The author has read widely, and thought deeply, and has a sufficiently broad mind to give her conclusions real value . . . should be read by all who think seriously on this most serious subject.”
Standard.—“A good deal of sound thinking has gone to the book’s composition and it is also illumined by a very kind and tender spirit.”
Bystander.—“A clever and most entertaining volume . . . the reader may be assured of much that is sage and sound, and much that is witty.”
Black & White.—“No one has gone so fully and vigorously into the various problems connected with marriage as Mrs Braby in her extremely readable book . . . one of the most vivid and original contributions to the discussion of a great problem that have appeared for a long time.”
Literary World.—“Very brightly written, and even when most audacious is full of good feeling and good sense . . . amusing and shrewd . . . clever and stimulating.”
BY THE SAME AUTHOR
DOWNWARD:
AN ATTEMPT TO PORTRAY A
“SLICE OF LIFE.”
A NOVEL.
By MAUD CHURTON BRABY
(Author of “Modern Marriage and How to Bear it.”)
6s.
This is a powerful study of modern life in London, and concerns the hearts and passions of live men and women. Being the first novel by Mrs Maud Churton Braby, author of
MODERN MARRIAGE
AND HOW TO BEAR IT
BY
MAUD CHURTON BRABY
“Marriage is the origin and summit of all
civilisation.”—Goethe.
POPULAR EDITION
T. WERNER LAURIE
CLIFFORD’S INN
LONDON
CONTENTS
PART ISIGNS OF UNREST
CHAP.
PAGE
I.THE MUTUAL DISSATISFACTION OF THE SEXES
3 II.WHY MEN DON’T MARRY
14 III.WHY WOMEN DON’T MARRY
26 IV.THE TRAGEDY OF THE UNDESIRED
42 PART IICAUSES OF FAILURE I.
THE VARIOUS KINDS OF MARRIAGE
57 II.WHY WE FALL OUT: DIVERS DISCORDS
68 III.THE AGE TO MARRY
85WILD OATS FOR WIVES
89 V.A PLEA FOR THE WISER TRAINING OF GIRLS
101 VI.‘KEEPING ONLY TO HER’—THE CRUX OF MATRIMONY
109 PART IIISUGGESTED ALTERNATIVES I.
LEASEHOLD MARRIAGE À LA MEREDITH
119 II.LEASEHOLD MARRIAGE IN PRACTICE: A DIALOGUE IN 1999
129 III.THE FIASCO OF FREE LOVE
141 IV.POLYGAMY AT THE POLITE DINNER-TABLE
146 V.IS LEGALISED POLYANDRY THE SOLUTION?
159 VI.A WORD FOR ‘DUOGAMY’
161 VII.THE ADVANTAGES OF THE PRELIMINARY CANTER
171 PART IVCHILDREN—THE CUL-DE-SAC OF ALL REFORMS I.
TO BEGET OR NOT TO BEGET—THE QUESTION OF THE DAY
177 II.THE PROS AND CONS OF THE LIMITED FAMILY
184 III.PARENTHOOD: THE HIGHEST DESTINY
193HOW TO BE HAPPY THOUGH MARRIED I.
A FEW SUGGESTIONS FOR REFORM
203 II.SOME PRACTICAL ADVICE TO HUSBANDS AND WIVES
209
TO
C. STANLEY CHURTON
THE BEST FATHER IN THE WORLD
WITH DEEP GRATITUDE
FOR A LIFETIME OF LOVING-KINDNESS